OK I'm too tired to write this up as an article right now, but off the top of my head the two things I think I do for my kids are:

1) I care.  We start the day with a cuddle and a "good morning gorgeous" (he now says it back).  I want to know how he slept, did he dream and through  the day I talk t o him and ask him how things are going.  I tell him i love him multiple times a day.  There are lots of cuddles and kisses in our house.  If I am cross or upset - or he is - we sit down and talk about why.  We talk about the way we want things to be and how we can do them.  I care about his needs and his wants and his hurts.  I care about what is best for them in the short and long term and sometimes worry about it too much.  I do all these things for my daughter too but in a different way as she is still a baby.

2) I delight in my children.  I enjoy being with them and sharing things together.  I try to make the most of each moment and try to make life fun for them.  I love their smiles and their voices and try to make sure I hear them lots.

Is that the right kind of thing?  Let me think about this and I'll write it up tomorrow.